1. SELFISHNESS
Selfishness is good if you are focusing on yourself rather than on others.
Personality development, professional skill improvement in a way is selfish. You are trying to make yourself and your life better. By focusing on helping yourself first, you can become stronger and then help others in a better way .
If you trying not to become selfish by just focusing on other people and not on yourself then people may take advantage of you.
You may become the “nice guy/girl” who is always out there to help other people without thinking about yourself which in the long run can become harmful to you.
Personality development, professional skill improvement in a way is selfish. You are trying to make yourself and your life better. By focusing on helping yourself first, you can become stronger and then help others in a better way .
If you trying not to become selfish by just focusing on other people and not on yourself then people may take advantage of you.
You may become the “nice guy/girl” who is always out there to help other people without thinking about yourself which in the long run can become harmful to you.
2. INTOLERANCE
We need to be inflexible and intolerant about certain things if we want to become a role model. One of it is integrity. No matter what the value or the impact of the indiscretion there should be no compromise on integrity
Either a person has integrity or he does not have integrity, there should be no shades of grey here. Stealing is stealing whether it is of Rs 5/- or Rs. 5 lacs.
This will set the tone.
Other things where a person should be intolerant are disrespect to the human dignity and expressing bias /stereotyping on the basis of racial, gender, religion.etc
Either a person has integrity or he does not have integrity, there should be no shades of grey here. Stealing is stealing whether it is of Rs 5/- or Rs. 5 lacs.
This will set the tone.
Other things where a person should be intolerant are disrespect to the human dignity and expressing bias /stereotyping on the basis of racial, gender, religion.etc
3. RUTHLESSNESS
A little Ruthlessness is a necessity in today’s world where there is too much of demand on our time and attention. Sometimes, a tough decision like sacking somebody needs to be taken to get the message across or for larger good.
We need to say no sometimes whether it is to do with invitation for a social event or a request from a colleague or boss.
It allows us to cut out the unnecessary instead of wimping around and trying to fit into everything somehow.
If you have problems with putting a stop to something or making decisions, then a little bit of ruthlessness may be what you need.
We need to say no sometimes whether it is to do with invitation for a social event or a request from a colleague or boss.
It allows us to cut out the unnecessary instead of wimping around and trying to fit into everything somehow.
If you have problems with putting a stop to something or making decisions, then a little bit of ruthlessness may be what you need.
4. LAZINESS
Stretching yourself a bit can be good. Overextending yourself is not.
Being lazy about stuff that is irrelevant or not that important will help you quite a bit to free up time, prioritize and minimize unnecessary stress. Getting the maximum stuff done in a given time leads to inefficiency, burnout and stress.
Concentrating on getting the most important things done will improve the work life balance .
Laziness also forces us to simplify things and set procedures and processes (alerts, reminders, manuals) to follow instead of doing things in a unplanned way
Being lazy about stuff that is irrelevant or not that important will help you quite a bit to free up time, prioritize and minimize unnecessary stress. Getting the maximum stuff done in a given time leads to inefficiency, burnout and stress.
Concentrating on getting the most important things done will improve the work life balance .
Laziness also forces us to simplify things and set procedures and processes (alerts, reminders, manuals) to follow instead of doing things in a unplanned way
5. NON SERIOUS
We should be non serious and should not take things and ourselves too seriously. There is nothing which is permanent whether pain or pleasure, happiness or sadness, everything will pass or get over.
The wheel of change will continue to grind crushing and raising alternatives so we should not worry too much just do our best and then be satisfied without worrying. Life is a journey which needs to be enjoyed
The wheel of change will continue to grind crushing and raising alternatives so we should not worry too much just do our best and then be satisfied without worrying. Life is a journey which needs to be enjoyed
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